How did you know your partner was someone you'd actually want to marry vs just date?
In a great relationship and starting to think about the long term.
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Sunday · May 12 · Issue №217
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Early red flag everyone ignores because it seems romantic at first?
♀ 50%·♂ 50%Does the 'nice guy' actually finish last or is that just an excuse?
Asking myself this a lot lately.
♀ 100%·♂ 0%What's an instant first-date turn-off for guys that girls don't realize?
Want the honest unfiltered version.
♀ 0%·♂ 100%Is staying friends with an ex ever actually a good idea?
We say we want to but I don't know if it's smart.
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No answers yet — be the first to take a sideWhat do girls like in boys
He ghosted then came back two months later like nothing happened. Do I even respond?
Part of me is curious, part of me is furious.
♀ 0%·♂ 100%How do I keep a long distance thing exciting and not just daily 'how was your day' texts?
Feels like we're becoming roommates over text.
♀ 100%·♂ 0%What's something girls do that guys secretly love but would never admit?
Just curious what flies under the radar.
♀ 0%·♂ 100%If a guy says 'we should hang out sometime' does he mean it or is it a polite exit?
Said at the end of a great conversation, then nothing.
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Being 'brutally honest' is just being mean with extra steps. Kindness and honesty are not opposites.
♀ 100%·♂ 0%Do guys actually care if a girl offers to split the bill on the first date?
I always offer but I never know if it's read as polite or as 'not interested.'
♀ 0%·♂ 100%How do you bring up that you're nonbinary early in dating without it being The Whole Conversation?
Want it to be a normal fact, not a TED talk.
♀ 50%·♂ 50%Should I reach out to an ex I still think about or leave it buried?
It's been 8 months. Ended on okay terms.
♀ 100%·♂ 0%Does double texting actually look desperate or is that a myth?
He hasn't replied in a day and I have something I want to say.
♀ 0%·♂ 100%What actually makes a guy attractive that isn't about looks or money?
Trying to be a better version of myself, genuinely.
♀ 100%·♂ 0%Is it okay to ghost someone after one bad date or do you owe them a text?
Nothing terrible happened, just zero chemistry.
♀ 50%·♂ 50%What's a green flag guys completely underestimate?
Want to know what actually matters vs what I think matters.
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