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Talking to this girl online , 3 days . She knows my intention. first chat we had was good we were both asking questions and were sending voicenotes but all we learnt was our college subjects. had another chat, she was a bit dry but i think she had other things on her mind she was still nice. I left it today to see if she would initiate something but nothing . Tomo if have a good chat and learn more about each other i want to ask her out on a date , is it too early ?? And is she even interested?

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Men, be honest: when you see a woman you’re REALLY attracted to but will probably never speak to, what are the actual thoughts that go through your head? Not what you do or whether you’d approach her. What do you privately think about her?

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I had a bit of a crush on someone and I was excited when I got his number but feel like everything was so confusing and now if there was any chance I feel like I messed it up. I don’t know what to do

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Hot take

Situationships are just relationships where one person refuses to lose a game nobody's playing.

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How did you know your partner was someone you'd actually want to marry vs just date?

In a great relationship and starting to think about the long term.

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Early red flag everyone ignores because it seems romantic at first?

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Does the 'nice guy' actually finish last or is that just an excuse?

Asking myself this a lot lately.

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What's an instant first-date turn-off for guys that girls don't realize?

Want the honest unfiltered version.

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Is staying friends with an ex ever actually a good idea?

We say we want to but I don't know if it's smart.

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He ghosted then came back two months later like nothing happened. Do I even respond?

Part of me is curious, part of me is furious.

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How do I keep a long distance thing exciting and not just daily 'how was your day' texts?

Feels like we're becoming roommates over text.

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What's something girls do that guys secretly love but would never admit?

Just curious what flies under the radar.

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If a guy says 'we should hang out sometime' does he mean it or is it a polite exit?

Said at the end of a great conversation, then nothing.

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Hot take

Being 'brutally honest' is just being mean with extra steps. Kindness and honesty are not opposites.

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Do guys actually care if a girl offers to split the bill on the first date?

I always offer but I never know if it's read as polite or as 'not interested.'

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How do you bring up that you're nonbinary early in dating without it being The Whole Conversation?

Want it to be a normal fact, not a TED talk.

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Should I reach out to an ex I still think about or leave it buried?

It's been 8 months. Ended on okay terms.

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Does double texting actually look desperate or is that a myth?

He hasn't replied in a day and I have something I want to say.

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